I find it funny that people have these terrible gendered expectations towards relationships. They want other people either to be the epitome of testosterone with budding muscles or to have permalipstick and babyliss every 2h.
That should really not be a thing. Everybody is a balance between feminility and masculinity, even if most people budge heavily to one of the sides, stripping them away from the other is fundamentally hurting them.
Cutting off a part of them and not letting the scar heal.
Don’t be that. People are people. Love them for who they are. Xoxo